The Stud vs. The Slut

There have been multiple discussions and arguments over the double standards of men and women. The main one being, if a guy has sex with multiple girls he’s a stud, a player. But if a girl has sex with multiple guys, she’s a slut. Now why is this so? Wouldn’t a guy technically be a slut or man-whore if he slept with multiple women? Now although I heard this from a comedian, once you really think about it, it makes a whole lot of sense. The reason men aren’t considered whores when it comes down to multiple partners is because men, normal men anyways have to actually put work into it. And when I say normal men, I mean your regular everyday guys, so no movie stars or musicians. For instance, let’s say a 6 guy talks to a 9 girl, he has to put in actual effort to try and just get her phone number. A girl on the other hand is the key holder to the entire project. She can just go sit at a bar and wait for any guy to present himself, he can sweet talk her all he wants but in the end she’s the one who decides. The girl is the one with all the power. She’s the one that determines if you get the phone number, if you get a 2^nd date, if you get to skip 3^rd base and go all the way home.

            So ladies please realize that guys don’t give a damn about what you look like, most guys’ goal is one simple thing. Sure there are those rare occasions where a guy really is interested in everything about you. Majority of the time, he’s basically looking for that crazy story he can tell his boys the next day. So if you’re a 2, they will make you out to look like a 15. I guess that’s why the whole stud/slut debate happened. Guys have to work at it the entire time while girls just have to say yes no matter what the situation is at hand. The stud is the dude putting in the time and effort and is getting a yes, left and right while the slut can get any guy by just simply saying yes. I’m not trying to sound sexist or anything in that sense; it’s mainly just some food for thought. Youtuber Skyy John once said, “A lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock but a key that can open any lock is a fucking master key…”