That's How It Is/The Nice Guy Theory

            It’s weird. One minute so close while the next you’re but a mere dot in the past. Thinking and hoping for one thing and the exact opposite happens. No longer feeling that love that was once felt. It’s weird... People, usually men, say that nice guys finish last. Hell, I’ve said it myself from time to time. Emotions get intertwined and something happens that makes the nice guy oblivious to the one rule he wouldn’t break when it came to chasing a specific girl. Every guy has a different rule let’s just leave it at that. Happiness is key, you want peace and quiet, you better make sure you keep her happy. Often times, you’ll want her to be eternally happy even if that means that you’re not the reason behind the happiness. Even when the real reason is some other guy or some other thing. So it’s not the fact that nice guys finish last, it’s the fact that they usually don’t have any other choice but to finish last… 

Pride and Joy

         If you were to ask me to describe my dream girl, I wouldn't be able to answer. I've learned that you can’t be picky, when it comes to love. Your heart is going to fall for something and it will fall hard. Now, sure people want this color hair and that type of body and a whole bunch of other nonsense. Be happy with what is being thrown at you. You should be able to trust the person with your life and they should make you happier than you could possibly be. Don’t worry about a person’s outside, when it’s the inside that truly matters. Sure, in the past I used to be shallow only looking for a damn model not caring about intelligence or anything else along those lines. I've learned to appreciate women. To be attracted to both body and mind. Don’t get me wrong I’m still picky; I’m picky with other things though. If you have a great personality, you’re kind in heart, I’m able to have a three hour long conversation about anything with you, well that’s all I ask for. I choose to fall in love with one’s mind first then explore the body later. But Richard, any girl can fit your description. And you know what that’s very true; the catch however is very simple. A dream girl is one who not only matches all of those qualities but is able to turn dreams into a reality. I know I'll find her soon enough...